Colossians 3:13 Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Un-forgiveness is a serious spirit affecting Christians big time and we go about ignoring it as if it’s a normal thing. Some go to a point of boasting about the fact that they won’t forgive you. Hebrews 12:15 looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled.
Un-forgiveness contaminate and prevents the flow of the anointing in our life.
God cannot expose you to more than you can handle. In every situation, there is always grace. You cannot see it because you have magnified your problem. 1 Peter 5:10 In his kindness God called you to share in his eternal glory by means of Christ Jesus. So after you have suffered a little while, he will restore, support, and strengthen you, and he will place you on a firm foundation.
Have faith in God. You cannot fully commit to God whilst you have alternatives.
Psalm 56:4 I praise God for what he has promised. I trust in God, so why should I be afraid? What can mere mortals do to me?
1 Peter 5:2 Care for the flock that God has entrusted to you. Watch over it willingly, not grudgingly-not for what you will get out of it, but because you are eager to serve God.