Matthew 12:33 “A tree is identified by its fruit. If a tree is good, its fruit will be good. If a tree is bad, its fruit will be bad. You cannot have negative thoughts about a person and wish good for him.
We are in conflict because we want to make the reality of our lives to be the reality of the next person. Have a mind that build value differences and loving the next person will be easy. Psalm 37:30-31 The mouths of the righteous utter wisdom, and their tongues speak what is just. The law of their God is in their hearts; their feet do not slip.