Mark 11:24 Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.
There are things that you do, there is a behavior or conduct that makes your desires realized. Wherever we go there is a qualifying criteria. Psalm 37:4 Delight yourself also in the LORD, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
When we pray, we pray for things that are inspired by the spirit for us to have. We are predestined beings. My potion is know in the spirit. My faith can never be above His will for my life.
Romans 8:26 Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
When something has been made real in your spiritual life by the intercession of the spirit, the prayer become effective because it’s coming from inside.