God has given us the liberty to do anything in life but in the decisions we take there are consequences which we cannot run away from. Running away from consequences only prolong the problem.
1 Corinthians 10:23-24 “I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but not everything is constructive. No one should seek their own good, but the good of others.
The painful part is when He has put his servants around you and you ignore the warnings that comes through them. 2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.