If God speak through dreams and visions, the bedroom should be a peaceful place.

Numbers 12:6 Then He said, “Hear now My words: If there is a prophet among you, I, the LORD, make Myself known to him in a vision; I speak to him in a dream.Create an environment that is suitable for the Spirit to dwell in. The Bible warns us not to go to sleep with our anger. 

It’s not that we won’t be offended. In our anger, we must look to God for healing and comfort. Ephesians 4:26 And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.” Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry.
The status before sleep has a bearing on how you wake up and how you wake up has a bearing to your mood during the day. You can be single but be in a warpath alone. Most of the victories are won in the mind. Don’t be a slave to your mind, be its master.

Tortoise character is to withdraw when confronted.

Offense will come but you cannot afford to respond carelessly. John 16:33 I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.”
Be able to take critics and come out positively. Don’t be like a tortoise who withdraw every time they touch his shell. An unhappy turtle will withdraw into its shell, physically and emotionally. He will remain quietly unobtrusive for minutes or even hours. Know that people will disappoint you, trust in God. In Him, there is peace.

Offense is an instrument to make you loose control.

Ephesians 4:26-27 And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.” Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil.

In this world there will be offense, don’t hold it, let it go. If you hold it, it becomes an instrument to use.Luke 17:1 Then He said to the disciples, “It is impossible that no offenses should come, but woe to him through whom they do come!